RēL Talk Blog
The Relational Field: Why Your Relationships Are Your Mirror
Most of us think of relationships as something “out there” — between me and you, or me and them. But the truth is, every relationship we have is also ...
Radical Responsibility: The Shift That Changes Everything
Most of us think responsibility is about blame — about who’s at fault or who should have done what. But the truth is, radical responsibility isn’t abo...
Holiday Conflict Tips! How to Keep Your Peace at the Table
Family gatherings can be equal parts joy and minefield. Whether it’s Christmas dinner, Easter brunch, or a random Sunday cookout, expectations, unspok...
Your Brain on Conflict
Why You React the Way You Do
Most of us think we’re “bad at conflict” because we overreact, shut down, or replay the same patterns over and over. But...
Conscious Communication: Speaking Up Without Blowing Up
Most of us think communication is simple: say what you mean. But in conflict, it rarely feels that easy.
It’s the sharp edge that slips into your ton...
Emotional Triggers: What to Do When Your Buttons Get Pushed
Most of us think of “triggers” as explosions — the moments when someone says or does something that sends us over the edge. But the truth is, emotiona...
What is Transformational Conflict™
The New Field Turning Disagreements into Growth
Most people see conflict as a problem to fix, a fire to put out, or — best case — something to “manag...
What is Conflict: Redefining the Most Misunderstood Part of Being Human
Redefining the Most Misunderstood Part of Being Human
Most people treat conflict like it’s a four-letter word. It’s the thing to avoid, tiptoe around...
Self-Coaching: A Beginner’s Guide to Your Most Underrated Skill
If you’ve ever wished you had someone in your ear at the exact moment you needed clarity, a different perspective, or wise advice — you’re going to lo...
I Don’t Avoid Conflict — I Just Avoid Drama
Some people hear “I don’t avoid conflict” and assume I must love confrontation. They picture me charging into arguments like a gladiator, ready for ba...
